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Traveling The World

September 24, 2009 scarlet^^ Leave a comment

A friend of mine is now visiting Japan from Germany.

Another friend of mine in the US is going to visit the UK from today for a week.

Oh, I am really, really glad for them that they could have a chance to visit where they have wanted to visit, but, well, in my heart, there is a bit of jealous…. No, I am very jealous at them!

There are almost 3 years since I made a trip to a foreign country (it was NYC), so I can’t stop to dream to travel again to a foreign country alone….. Alone!

By traveling foreign country alone, I felt that I found myself. It was sometimes I already knew, but sometimes I didn’t know til then. I think it was because of that I was free from the responsibilities of my real life and I had to handle everything by myself just as myself.

I noticed that I could handle some things better than I expected. I also noticed that I didn’t feel lonely but rather enjoying being alone.

Ah…. Those wonderful days….

Well, it is not easy to travel to a foreign county, it needs enough holidays and money, but I will try to make it true in near future.

I will.

For those people who is traveling foreign countries, especially alone, including my friends, Enjoy! Enjoy every moments you are having and experiencing now and then! Find yourself more deeply than ever. All experiences will give you new strength, new knowledge, new wisdom which you wouldn’t get without doing this.

Enjoy!

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Lost a Friend

August 25, 2009 scarlet^^ Leave a comment

A friend of mine, my cyber friend, suddenly passed away by a car accident. He fell asleep…..

It is a danger you can’t prevent. You can decide not to drink, but you can’t decide not to fall asleep. Sleeping is one of our natural needs, so it comes to us sometimes unexpectedly. I myself got into this situation so many times. At those times, I stopped the car and had a short break, like to close my eyes for a while, maybe about 30 minutes or so.

Oh, my friend, why didn’t you do so? There is lots of people who needs you…..

In Japan, I have been taught that there is our last and one of most important jobs we have to do before we leave the Earth. Which is that to give the people around you to join together, share the sorrow and memories, and most importantly, to give them a chance to renew the relationships among them and make it stronger and closer.

I have also been taught that I must thank the passing person not only for that they have shared their lives with me, but also because of that they give me a chance to see other people, share my life and theirs, and most importantly, I could have a chance to renew the relationships with them and make it stronger and closer.

It is coming from Buddhism. In Buddhism, we take special ceremonies for each passing person 49 days later, a year later, 2 years later, 6 years later, 13 years later…. Even 50 years later. And, each ceremony has the same meanings. We come to see again, share the memories of passing people again, share our lives in each other again, and make the relationships among us stronger and closer again. It is described like, “to be given an opportunity to build relationships (or, connections?) in each other related to the passing person.”

So, now, it is his turn to do this work. I am sure many people would receive the result of his last work, and their relationships will  be stronger and closer every time they think of him. WE think of him.

He accepted me as his Japanese Little Sister. I never thought that he talked about me with his friends who didn’t communicate with me directly, but one of his friends said that he mentioned about me…..

Oh….. Brother, I miss you……..

Rest in Peace.

A Message For Peace From Mr. Issei Miyake

July 16, 2009 scarlet^^ Leave a comment

Mr. Issei Miyake (三宅一生) is a famous clothe designer from Japan, Hiroshima.

He offered an article to the New York Times about his experience and opinion of the atomic bomb.

By posting this, as I wrote before, I don’t intend to make an excuse about what Imperial Japan had done or offend to American people.

I just wish everyone to think about the Peace of the World.

Here is a link to the Message From Mr. Issei Miyake

And, I have copied the article here for in case of that the link wouldn’t work…..

IN April, President Obama pledged to seek peace and security in a world without nuclear weapons. He called for not simply a reduction, but elimination. His words awakened something buried deeply within me, something about which I have until now been reluctant to discuss.

I realized that I have, perhaps now more than ever, a personal and moral responsibility to speak out as one who survived what Mr. Obama called the “flash of light.”

On Aug. 6, 1945, the first atomic bomb was dropped on my hometown, Hiroshima. I was there, and only 7 years old. When I close my eyes, I still see things no one should ever experience: a bright red light, the black cloud soon after, people running in every direction trying desperately to escape — I remember it all. Within three years, my mother died from radiation exposure.

I have never chosen to share my memories or thoughts of that day. I have tried, albeit unsuccessfully, to put them behind me, preferring to think of things that can be created, not destroyed, and that bring beauty and joy. I gravitated toward the field of clothing design, partly because it is a creative format that is modern and optimistic.

I tried never to be defined by my past. I did not want to be labeled “the designer who survived the atomic bomb,” and therefore I have always avoided questions about Hiroshima. They made me uncomfortable.

But now I realize it is a subject that must be discussed if we are ever to rid the world of nuclear weapons. There is a movement in Hiroshima to invite Mr. Obama to Universal Peace Day on Aug. 6 — the annual commemoration of that fateful day. I hope he will accept. My wish is motivated by a desire not to dwell on the past, but rather to give a sign to the world that the American president’s goal is to work to eliminate nuclear wars in the future.

Last week, Russia and the United States signed an agreement to reduce nuclear arms. This was an important event. However, we are not naïve: no one person or country can stop nuclear warfare. In Japan, we live with the constant threat from our nuclear-armed neighbor North Korea. There are reports of other countries acquiring nuclear technology, too. For there to be any hope of peace, people around the world must add their voices to President Obama’s.

If Mr. Obama could walk across the Peace Bridge in Hiroshima — whose balustrades were designed by the Japanese-American sculptor Isamu Noguchi as a reminder both of his ties to East and West and of what humans do to one another out of hatred — it would be both a real and a symbolic step toward creating a world that knows no fear of nuclear threat. Every step taken is another step closer to world peace.

Issey Miyake is a clothing designer. This article was translated by members of his staff from the Japanese.

Queen Of The Night Again

July 2, 2009 scarlet^^ Leave a comment

Queen of the Night 2009

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A Happy New Year

January 1, 2009 scarlet^^ Leave a comment

I wish all of you a happy new year.

We are goint to have the brand new days.

Wish your brand new days will be happy and peace.

Scarlet

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Amazing soap!

December 8, 2008 scarlet^^ Leave a comment

Maybe a week or so, I changed my face wash and it is really amazing :shock:

In Japan, it is very dry during winter time, and I always got troubles on my skin.

But, now, it is very, very nice feeling on my cheeks! I felt that it was like 20 years old girl’s…  

No, just joking, of course. :lol:

Oh, but the effect is really amazing. I’ve never though a soap could change skin condition so much greatly. Now, I need less lotion than before.

As I don’t like to spend long time in front of a mirror, especially in the morning, it is really helpful :wink:

Well, yes, I am lazy and I want to sleep more than making up my face in the morning.

 

Oh! I completely forgot to talk about the name of the soap…

The name is, “Snow cakes” from LUSH.

It is sold as a body soap, but it works very well on my face, too. Actually, I even wash my hair and get good result.

Now, I am so happy that I can wash every part of me with only one soap!

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Grandma’s Birthday

November 15, 2008 scarlet^^ Leave a comment

Yesterday was my Grandma’s birthday and she is 81 years old now.

Since last month, she had an operation with her eyes, she has been having hard time, and I wanted to make her cheer up a little.

These some years, it has been told that blueberry would be good for your eyes in Japan, and I know she’s been trying to get more blueberries than ever. Then, I bought a birthday cake which has blueberries inside of it for her.

And tonight, my father who is her son and my brother planed the special dinner for her birthday!

These 2 presents changed nothing with her eyes, all of us know, but it seemed that she had a bit of happiness and laughed a lot, even she got tears in her eyes while she was laughing!

I believe she will make me annoyed about something in near future, but I still love her so much and she loves me, too.

I wish we will be able to celebrate her birthday as long as possible.

 

Grandma, Happy Birthday!

Be happy and healthy, stay with us more for a while.

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The fourth book of Harry Potter

November 13, 2008 scarlet^^ Leave a comment

At last!

I’ve been trying to read Harry Potter seriese in Englih, and I began the fourth book!

The fist book seemed easy, but the second and thrid….

I will take me for a while, I believe, but I will keep trying. As I wrote on the page of “About”, I love reading, and I feel that is the best way of learning for me. I can’t remember well something I learnt by listening classes, but I can easily pic lots of information up which I got by reading.

And, English-English dictionaries.

I always used E-E dictionaries for ESL learners when I read books written in English. Sometimes, the explanations are more difficult than the sentence I want to understand, but those explanations are written in the same style, different from the sentences in the book. I mean, the auther difinitely tried to express differently for making the story interesting. But, on the dictionary, you would find the same expression on each words which has the same feature, like verb, adj, nurn, etc. It is more effective to me to used to the same expression for improving my English skills.

I don’t think it is the best way of learning foreign language for you too.

I just try to show you my way.

Hope you can get a goot result on your learning something!

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Happy Birthday to Me!

September 16, 2008 scarlet^^ 4 comments

And, one of my younger brothers. (His birthday is today, too.)

Today is the most important day of my life!

Thank you Mom, Dad, 2 of my younger brothers, other member of my relatives and my friends.

Hmm.

Kotooshu lost the match though today is my birthday (lol), but Hiroshima Carp won the game.

Thank you, Carp, the wining is a big birthday present for me.

I will support you forever!

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She’s coming!

September 10, 2008 scarlet^^ Leave a comment

 

 

Queen of the Night

Queen of the Night

The first one of this year.

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